Facebook Dating is a feature within the Facebook app that allows users to connect with potential romantic partners. Unlike other dating apps, Facebook Dating is integrated into the platform but remains separate from the main Facebook profile, making it somewhat discreet. If you’re curious about whether someone you know is using Facebook Dating, there are a few ways you can try to find out.

1. Check Their Facebook App

Facebook Dating is only available within the Facebook mobile app, not on the desktop version. If you have access to the person’s phone (with their permission, of course), you can check whether the Dating feature is active by following these steps:

• Open the Facebook app.
• Tap on the three horizontal lines (menu) in the top or bottom right corner.
• Scroll down and look for Dating under “All Shortcuts.”

If you see the Dating feature and it’s set up, then the person is using Facebook Dating. If the feature isn’t visible, it may mean they haven’t activated it or Facebook hasn’t made it available in their region yet.

2. Search for Their Dating Profile (Using Your Own Account)

If you have a Facebook account, you can activate Facebook Dating to see if their profile appears in your suggested matches. Here’s how:

• Open the Facebook app and go to the Menu.
• Tap Dating and set up a profile (you can keep it minimal).
• Browse through suggested matches.

Facebook Dating doesn’t allow direct searches for specific people, but if the person is within your suggested matches, it’s a clear indication they are using the platform.

3. Check Their Facebook Activity

Although Facebook Dating is separate from the main profile, some activity might still provide clues:

• Profile Updates: If they suddenly update their profile picture frequently, it might be an indication they are making an effort to appear more attractive.
• New Friends: A sudden increase in new Facebook friends, especially those of the opposite gender (or their preferred dating preference), could be a sign.
• Interactions with Facebook Dating Users: While Facebook Dating does not post activity on the regular timeline, some people may still engage with new friends they meet through it.

4. Ask Them Directly

If you are in a relationship with the person or have a close friendship, the best way to find out is to ask directly. A simple conversation can clear up any suspicions. If they deny it but you still suspect otherwise, you may want to look for additional evidence.

5. Use a Mutual Friend’s Account

If you share mutual friends who are using Facebook Dating, you can ask them to check if they come across the person’s profile in their match suggestions. This is one of the more discreet ways to find out.

6. Check If They Have a Secret Crush on You

Facebook Dating has a feature called Secret Crush, where users can select people from their Facebook friends list as potential matches. If both people add each other, Facebook will notify them. If you suspect someone might have added you as a crush, you can activate Facebook Dating and add their name to your list—if it’s a match, you’ll know they are using the feature.

7. Look for Facebook Dating-Related Notifications

While Facebook Dating is private, some users may accidentally reveal their activity through:

• Push notifications from Facebook Dating appearing on their phone screen.
• Emails from Facebook about new dating matches or messages (if they haven’t disabled email notifications).

8. Observe Their Social Media Behavior

People using dating apps, including Facebook Dating, often:

• Spend more time on their phone, especially at night.
• Become more secretive about their social media accounts.
• Suddenly show more interest in their appearance or social outings.

9. Use Third-Party Websites and Forums (With Caution)

There are online communities where people discuss experiences on Facebook Dating, and some claim to have ways to find users. However, many of these sites are unreliable or may violate privacy policies. Always be cautious when using third-party tools.

Conclusion

Finding out if someone is using Facebook Dating can be challenging because the platform is designed for privacy. The most effective ways include setting up your own Facebook Dating profile, checking their activity on Facebook, or simply having an honest conversation with them. If you’re concerned about their use of the app for personal reasons—such as being in a committed relationship—trust and communication are key.